'Tell me what happens the first time you see a woman naked.'

'The first time you see a woman naked will not be like you imagined. There will be no love, no trust, no intimacy. You won’t even be in the same room as her.

You won’t get to smile as she undresses you and you undress her. You won’t get to calm her nerves with nerves of your own. You won’t get to kiss her, feeling her lips and the edge of her tongue. You won’t get to brush your fingers over the lace of her bra or count her ribs or feel her heartbeat.

The first time you see a woman naked you will be sitting in front of a computer screen watching someone play at intimacy and perform at sex. She will contort her body to please everyone in the room but her. You will watch this woman who is not a woman, pixelated and filtered and customized. She will come ready-made, like an order at a restaurant. The man on the screen will be bigger than you, rougher than you. He will teach you how to talk to her. He will teach you where to put your hands and he will teach you what you’re supposed to like. He will teach you to take what is yours.

You must unlearn this. You must unlearn this twisted sense of love. You must unlearn the definition of pleasure and intimacy you are being taught. Kill this idea of love, this idea of entitlement, this way of scarring one another.’


this scared me and made me cry and i am almost embarrassed to post this but quite honestly i would rather fight for this rather than anything else.

men and womens value, and the indescribable importance of intimacy

(via fluts)

(Source: typewriterdaily, via my-trance)


So I was talking to my friend about colouring books and she showed me this one.


And then there was this page.


And finally this absolute gem!


How amazing is this book?! I want one.

(via benedictcumberbecca)

posted 1 day ago
8,045 notes / reblog


"I can lose my smile for a day, for a minute, but not forever, you can be sure that tomorrow i will smile again…"
Neymar (via pochiyo)

(via be-yourself-and-no1-else)

"You have this one life. How do you wanna spend it? Apologizing? Regretting? Questioning? Hating yourself? Dieting? Running after people who don’t see you? Be brave. Believe in yourself. Do what feels good. Take risks. You have this one life. Make yourself proud."
(via anna-learns-to-love-herself)

(via livelovehep)

Anonymous said: unf

aww thanks ! :o <3







probably not gonna get any

watch as i get none ~

*patiently waits for none* 

waiting for absloutley no onE.

i hate these they give me anxiety but im curious 

Just curious!

(Source: 1-girls-wishes, via just-a-punk-rock-drummer-girl)

"How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard."
A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh (via saetern)

(Source: larmoyante, via welcometopandora)

"I need you to be there
Because you want to be
And not because
I need you to be-
This might not make sense,
But it is what it is-
Welcome to my world.
It does not make sense."
M.S. (via coffee-crinkled-pages)

(via jennyfr0mthebloc)

posted 3 days ago
47,993 notes / reblog

posted 3 days ago
38,308 notes / reblog

james deen is perfect 

posted 3 days ago
145 notes / reblog


posted 3 days ago
105,932 notes / reblog

posted 3 days ago
6,118 notes / reblog